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findom with subs moneyFinancial domination, also known as findom, is probably one of the most interesting fetishes of all. Imagine being someone who has the desire to give over their hard-earned money every week to someone who enjoys seeing you grovel and beg for them to continue to rape your wallet. If you’re into this kink or know someone who is, you’re not alone. There are thousands of men who secretly indulge in this fetish daily.

So, what is financial domination or findom? It’s a fetish that involves one party (the submissive) handing over money to another party (the domme) knowing that they will ultimately not receive anything in return. Simple, right? Not quite. This particular fetish strongly relies on the dominant party’s ability to psychologically entice the submissive into handing over his or her money.

Many find the fetish strange because why would anyone want to hand over their hard earned money to someone they don’t even know? Most men and some women get into financial domination because they have low self-esteem. For most of their lives, they have not felt like they have belonged. They might have been the teenager that couldn’t get a girlfriend or the young adult that just didn’t seem to fit in anywhere. The world of findom provides a sanctuary of sorts for those who are looking for a place in society.

When subs hand over their money they feel as if they are making an important decision. It’s the one thing in a sense that they have control over in their dull or hectic lives. While the domme can bark orders all day and night and tell the sub to get down to his knees and hand over his money, the outcome really relies on the willingness of the sub. Believe it or not, especially with this fetish, the sub has a lot of control.

While some enjoy real-time sessions by meeting up at ATMs and being milked of all their money in a public humiliation session, a lot of the interaction between findoms and finsubs takes place online.

If you’re on twitter and look up the hashtag findom, you will see a ton of ladies claiming they are findoms and to hand over your money if you’re a true financial sub. In some tweets, you may see posts like “Don’t talk to me unless you tribute” or “Give me your all I’m worth it”. Ladies post these tweets in hopes that they will gain the attention of submissives.

When financial domination became a well-known fetish, many women flocked to the internet creating Twitter profiles and joining websites that cater to the fetish. Many figured it looked so easy getting money from pathetic men so why not try and get in while the pot is still hot? The problem with this is that many of these women are not true findoms and are instadoms as many in the BDSM community like to call them. Some of these women are not dominant at all but think financial domination is a way to make a quick buck. This makes it hard for those who are true findoms to find finsubs because the subs are now extremely cautious of who they give their money to.

Financial domination is not for everyone. For the submissive you must want to let go a little and have your domme be your financial planner. Daily or weekly tributes and assignments are the norms for being an active participant. One does not necessarily need to be rich to partake in activities. This fetish really is for anyone.

We ultimately all have our fetishes and things that make us tick. Whether it’s handing over your money to a dominant woman you just met or offering your soul to a dominatrix you’ve been watching from afar, we have everything you need at Domination Phone Sex, indulge in your secret fantasies.

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