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cuckold2Many submissives fantasise about being a cuckold to their wife or girlfriend, so what is exactly is a cuckold?

The term cuckold applies to a man who is in a relationship but does not have sex with his partner. The partner with his knowledge has sex with other men. While this is the short answer there are various extremes of a cuckold and as many reasons as to why he considers himself to be one.

The most common is that he is or considers himself to be inadequate in the bedroom, perhaps due to a below average cock size. He is unable to satisfy his partner and is happy for her to get her needs met elsewhere. Sometimes this could be the extent of his cuckold fetish.

For others it includes further humiliation both verbally and physically. This may include any or all of the following;

Being put into a chastity device where his partner will decide if and when he will masturbate. He may get to watch his partner having sex but be unable to touch himself, she will enjoy teasing him knowing that he will be uncomfortable in his device and he will normally have to earn the privilege of masturbation and orgasm.

Keeping his partner in the lifestyle that she desires knowing that he will never have sex with her.

Being dressed in women’s clothing from just panties to fully sissy attire. He could also be given a girly name and take on the traditional female duties around the house and entertain his partner’s lovers, serving drinks and food.

Be verbally humiliated in front of his partner’s lover about the size of his cock and how he is unable to satisfy her.

His partner might use him for oral sex, she may or may not allow him to masturbate afterwards.

One of the ultimate forms of humiliation for the cuckold is to have to clean his partner up after sex with her lover. The term widely used for this act is a cream pie.

Now if a cream pie was not enough some cuckolds might actually get used by their partner’s lovers by either giving oral or being used anally. This serves to further emasculate him from the giver to the receiver.

The scenario could go as far as the lover moving in and the partner sleeping in the spare room, the lover taking the role of the man of the house. The female partner getting the best of both worlds, having the long term stability of her cuckold partner and her lover in her bed every night.

This kind of relationship is not one to be decided on lightly due to the implications, once the female partner has had sex with another man then it will have obvious consequences. As much as her partner has thought about it and got aroused by it, the actual act might bring about a totally different reaction. The female partner might relish the thought of having sex with a man that will be a better lover only to be left with guilt afterwards. These possible issues need to be addressed at length before the first *permitted indiscretion*. The couple need to have a strong relationship with plenty of trust and communication in order to get the best out of it and minimise the risks.

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