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harem sex slaveThere can be endless pleasure in completely and utterly giving yourself over to a person. A slave isn’t a helpless person that endures pain and suffering at the hand of their Master. A slave is a person that willingly takes and accepts their training, pleasures and punishments for mutual enjoyment. The Master/slave dynamic is an intense lifestyle that should not be taken lightly by either party. To better understand what it takes to be slave and how it differs from other forms of BDSM will make for a much stronger Master/slave relationship…

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There is a difference between a slave and submissive: A slave isn’t someone that only is submissive every now and then or just in private. They tend to live the life of a slave 24 hours a day, seven days a week. Every action and every decision is made in accordance with that fact. A slave also gives 100 percent to their Master while a submissive has varying degrees of submission. In order to be a slave, you have to be willing to give up almost every other aspect of your life if that is the will of your Master.

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Expect a contract: A person doesn’t just become a slave lightly and the slave chooses the Master just as much as the Master chooses the slave. It’s common for them to draw up a Master/slave contract that goes over the various aspects of the relationship. This could entail everything from limits for punishment to what the slave and Master are expected to do. Breaking these rules by either party may mean the end of the partnership.

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There must be mutual respect: A slave has the right to say no and the Master must obey. The slave must also expect consequences. The slave must respect the Master and the Master must respect the slave. Slaves are there because they want to be. The life they live is the one they choose. The Master understands that and treats the slave accordingly. This way both of them have their needs met. Without that mutual respect, the dynamic will not work.

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Tone it down when in public if you need to: Masters and slaves can have regular lives with regular jobs, sex slave haremfriends and families. Perhaps have a more ‘vanilla’ name for your Master when in public, so as to not raise suspicions. For many the Master/ slave dynamic is known to only a precious few and that’s the way they want it. You can still be the slave in public, but you don’t need to always wear BDSM attire or use BDSM phrases.

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Sex is only a small part of it: Sexual gratification, sex games, etc. is only small part of the Master/ slave lifestyle. A slave may be expected to cook meals, entertain friends, clean the house, etc. Each of these tasks may have sexual elements such as cleaning in a sexy outfit, etc. Don’t worry, there is plenty of sex and pain/pleasure play to go around, but it doesn’t have to be there all the time, the main source of pleasure comes from the total control/submission.

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Slaves will have their basic needs taken care of: One of the aspects of being slave is that their Master will provide food, shelter, etc. Depending on the relationship, the Master may also provide a bevy of other things including education. This is all agreed upon ahead of time before the relationship begins.

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Learn your positions: A slave must learn positions for supplication, punishment, etc. These positions are designed to show complete and utter submission to the dominant. There are many positions, but the exact positions the slave will assume once again depends on the rigors of the relationship and the preference of the Master.

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Timescale: It may or may not last forever. There are Masters and slaves that have been together for years and there are some that get traded back and forth. There are occasionally circumstances such as illness, death, financial problems, etc. that require the Master to send their slave to another Master. It’s not uncommon for slaves to be shared between friends or to be released from their contract if the relationship isn’t panning out the way both parties hoped.

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Each Master is different: Some Masters focus more on the pain aspects of the relationships and have many ways of causing pain. Other Masters prefer to focus on following rules and commands or may prefer light pain. For others it’s more about taking care of their slave and having them completely dependent. Each Master is different, so don’t expect a new Master to do the same things as a previous Master.

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Sexual service: The slave must always remember that their pleasure is derived from their Master’s pleasure. Most Master’s will not allow their slaves to orgasm without permission and will expect sexual service when ever and however they see fit (barring illness and/or pre agreed terms).

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