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spank thisBDSM has many facets that most people are completely unaware of that go far beyond simple Master and slave or submissive and Dominant. The concept of age play is one of those. With age play, two consenting adults role play where one or both people regress and act a different age than they actually are. The roles are generally separated by submissive and Dominant with the sub traditionally playing the regressor.

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The Adult Baby fantasy does not have to be sexual (and often isn’t). With phrases like ‘Paraphilic infantilism’ and ‘adult baby syndrome’ being thrown about by the likes of Wiki, they make it sound more like an illness than a sexual fetish! So far there hasn’t been any extensive study or research carried out on the subject, but the general consensus is that Adult Babies are attracted to the masochistic/humiliating/submissive aspect of age play.

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Infantilism is when a person transforms themselves into a baby often complete with nappy/dummy/romper suit/cot/toys. The baby is then taken care of by the Dominant (Mummy/Daddy/Nanny/Big Babysitter) as they would most babies. That includes feeding, nappy changes, bath time, nap time etc. It can even become as elaborate as adult sized baby furniture and cribs. This is the ultimate form of submission in that the “baby” cannot do anything for itself, every decision has to be made for it.

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Age play on the BDSM scene tends to be centered more around that of the seductive/Dominant older man/woman playing out the classic fantasies such as ‘the naughty school girl’. Adult Babies and Diaper/Nappy lovers are without doubt classed as a fetish, but predominantly has a community all of its own.

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ABDL is the acronym for Adult Babies and Diaper Lovers.

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The role of the Dominant in age play is that of an authority/caring figure. While there is role playing involved, the majority of the difficult emotional and physical work is done by the submissive. The submissive is required to regress in age and demeanor, while the Dominant likely plays someone of an similar age to themselves.

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The role of the Dominant in age play is that of an authority/caring figure. While there is role playing nappyabdlinvolved, the majority of the difficult emotional and physical work is done by the submissive. The submissive is required to regress in age and demeanor, while the Dominant likely plays someone of an similar age to themselves.

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A popular sub section of the scene is Sissy Babies – taking on your opposite gender for age regression, ie grown men wearing pretty pink dresses as well as a nappy and/or frilly knickers. Make no mistake this is a very popular niche! Company’s selling Adult Baby furniture, clothing, nappies, toys etc are making big money from this fetish. The community is obviously quite tight knit, if you’re a Company Director I’m guessing you don’t want your employees or customers getting wind that you like to pretend to be a baby girl on the weekends!

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The internet has broadened the playground immensely, with booming forums and sites dedicated to age regression and nappy play, but failing that there are elite clubs and even Adult Baby Nurseries one could attend if they were so inclined.

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Many people who want to try age play, especially those playing the Big or authority figure, worry about the context of the fantasy and its relation to pedophilia. It’s important to remember that regardless if the submissive is portraying an infant, they are NOT underage. There is nothing illegal or harmful in age play since everyone involved is over the age of 18 and consenting to the act. The person portraying the infant is actually an adult and understands his or her role in the fantasy. Whatever sexual fantasies that are played out are between two grown adults.

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There is really no hard and fast rules when it comes to age play. As two adults, you have the option to let your imagination run wild. You can take on the traditional roles or make up something completely new and unique. The experience can be very therapeutic.

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